Choosing where to give birth is a big decision for expectant parents! And that’s because your birth setting can greatly influence the overall birth experience.
It’s crucial to carefully weigh the options and select the environment that best aligns with your individual needs, preferences, and risk factors.
Even if you aren’t choosing between birthplaces (in this very moment), I guarantee you’re going to learn something about birthplaces and what they offer. So, stick with me, mama, as we navigate choosing where to give birth!
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As you go about choosing your birthplace (or reflect on the place you are currently set to birth), here are some things I want you to keep in mind:
For many mamas, hospitals are the default choice. In fact, hospital births account for over 98% of all U.S. births!
They offer a wide range of medical services, pain management options, and emergency care if complications arise. Hospitals are often the safest option for high-risk pregnancies or anticipated medical needs.
However, the hospital environment can sometimes feel impersonal and overly medicalized, leading some to seek alternative birthing locations.
I recommend everyone do a hospital tour. It brings most women a sense of calm and helps erase the unknown if they can SEE their birth space before the big day. Think about planning a wedding, you kind of want to go look at the reception hall in person before you book it, just to get the feel for it right?
While you’re there look at the nurses! Are they friendly? Do you get a good vibe? Your nurse is going to be with you for about 80% of the time in the hospital, you want to get a feel for if they seem like they hate their jobs. Don’t worry, most of us don’t!
Keep in mind, a newly renovated hospital doesn’t always mean that it’s a GOOD hospital. Just remember to not judge a hospital based on its paint color.
Furthermore, if you’re planning a birth center or home birth, I cannot urge you enough to still look up your local hospital’s stats and take a tour! If you become high-risk during your pregnancy or during your labor, there is a very good chance you WILL wind up at a hospital.
Better to be prepared, have a visual of the alternative birth setting, and just know some statistics if that ends up happening!
Birth centers are best for mamas that are considered low-risk and are planning for an unmedicated, vaginal delivery. Birth centers provide prenatal services as well as preconception counseling. They also have postpartum services and well visit checkups for newborns.
Some birth centers are free standing, while others are located close to or even on the same campus as a hospital. Birth centers that are affiliated with hospitals are the ones that often have OBGYNs on staff or overseeing care.
Birth centers are equipped to provide routine care during a vaginal birth and can initiate emergency procedures. They have extensive emergency preparedness procedures in place to help transfer you to a hospital should an emergency occur.
To find a birth center near you that is licensed and accredited, visit the Commission for the Accreditation of Birthing Centers website. Once you find one, you can contact them to arrange a tour of their facility and to meet the providers.
I also recommend finding a midwife that has a relationship with an OBGYN. This will allow the midwife to easily consult them if a need arises throughout pregnancy.
Home births are increasingly gaining popularity among women seeking a natural and intimate birthing experience. They offer maximum control over the birthing environment and allow for personalized care.
Home births are best for women that have a low-risk pregnancy and are planning an unmedicated, vaginal delivery. Home births should always be carefully planned with and attended by a certified professional midwife. A doula can (and often do!) also attend a home birth, but they should not attend in replacement of a midwife under any circumstance.
*The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists cautions against a home birth if:
Now that we’ve talked about all the different types of birthplaces. I want to dial in specifically to hospital stats. Over 98% of women birth in a hospital, so knowing how to look up stats about your hospital specifically is a must! You can use this strategy if your provider is unable to answer questions about your birthplace or in addition to a conversation with your provider for some added knowledge and info.
The Leapfrog Group is my favorite way to look up hospital maternal statistics. This handy little website has a TON of info available on hospitals in the US. And It’s really simple to use!
As Leapfrog mentions, anything under 23.6% is great. Keep in mind that the national average C-section rate in the U.S. for 2023 was 32.4%.
Occasionally when searching for your hospital, you may find that it has no data displayed. Don’t get too nervous about that though, especially if the hospital you plan to deliver at is rather new.
If for some reason your hospital is not showing data, here’s what you can do:
Choosing the right birthing location requires careful consideration of several factors. These include the mother’s health history, risk factors, personal preferences, and desired level of medical intervention. It’s important to research different options, visit potential birth settings, and discuss your choices with your healthcare provider.
Ultimately, the best place to give birth is the one where the mama feels safest, most comfortable, and most empowered. Whether it’s a hospital, birth center, or home, the chosen setting should support the mama’s individual needs and birth preferences. It’s essential to remember that there is no one-size-fits-all answer, and the right choice will vary for each individual.
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Happy birthing, mama!